T\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebrgatitjet p\u00ebr intervist\u00eb mund t\u00eb ju shkojn\u00eb posht\u00eb n\u00ebse ju nuk keni b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitjen psikologjike t\u00eb duhur. N\u00ebse ju nuk ndiheni t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb me veten dhe me at\u00eb q\u00eb dini, ju mund t\u00eb keni paraqitje t\u00eb dob\u00ebt n\u00eb intervist\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb interesante t\u00eb ceket se njer\u00ebzit me vet\u00ebbesim m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi kalojn\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb intervist\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, edhe n\u00ebse ata kan\u00eb m\u00eb pak njohuri konkrete p\u00ebr vendin e pun\u00ebs dhe kompanin\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn kan\u00eb aplikuar. Kjo ndodh\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak se ata rrezatojn\u00eb tipare pozitive tek intervistuesit dhe pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit. Sidoqoft\u00eb, intervistuesit e mir\u00eb din\u00eb t\u00eb dallojn\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrdor vet\u00ebbesimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb fshehur jokompetenc\u00ebn apo njohurit\u00eb e ul\u00ebta rreth pun\u00ebs n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ka aplikuar.<\/p>\n
Prandaj, \u00e7el\u00ebsi p\u00ebr intervist\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme \u00ebsht\u00eb kombinimi i njohurive me vet\u00ebbesimin.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse ju nuk i besoni vetes, as njer\u00ebzit tjer\u00eb nuk shohin arsyje t\u00eb ju besojn\u00eb. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ju deklaroni di\u00e7ka dhe ndiheni t\u00eb pasigurt\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb thoni, ju do t\u00eb ngjallni dyshime te pala tjet\u00ebr. Pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit nuk ndihen komfor t\u00eb i japin pun\u00eb me p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi dikuj q\u00eb nuk i beson vetes, apo q\u00eb jep at\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Ka persona q\u00eb, edhe pse i besojn\u00eb vetes, tentojn\u00eb t\u00eb japin p\u00ebrshtypje \u201cmodeste\u201d dhe b\u00ebjn\u00eb \u00e7mos q\u00eb t\u00eb mos paraqiten \u201carrogant\u00eb\u201d te pala tjet\u00ebr. Ky mentalitet mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i d\u00ebmsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr arsyje se njer\u00ebzit e till\u00eb fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb probleme me kufij personal dhe b\u00ebhen vulnerabil p\u00ebr t\u00eb u trajtuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb padrejta nga njer\u00ebzit tjer\u00eb. Ata nuk e din\u00eb dallimin n\u00eb mes asertivitetit dhe arroganc\u00ebs. Asertivitet do t\u00eb thot\u00eb mos-hezitimi i mbrojtjes s\u00eb kufijve personal\u00eb pa shkelur kufijt\u00eb e pal\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr. P.sh. n\u00ebse dikush iu merr lapsin dhe pas p\u00ebrdorimit nuk iu kthen at\u00eb, ju keni plot\u00ebsisht t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni lapsin tuaj, por pa ofenduar pal\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr. Njer\u00ebzit joasertiv\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast do t\u00eb reagonin ose n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb pasive (nuk do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkonin q\u00eb t\u00eb ju kthehej lapsi) ose n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb agresive (do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkonin lapsin e tyre n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb pakontrolluar). Pasiviteti dhe agresiviteti, edhe pse gjenden n\u00eb polet e kund\u00ebrta t\u00eb kontinumit t\u00eb personalitetit, t\u00eb dyjat reflektojn\u00eb pasigurin\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebbesimin e ul\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Ju duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatiteni q\u00eb n\u00eb intervist\u00eb t\u00eb keni q\u00ebndrim asertiv. Asertiviteti \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebndrimi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb i mundsh\u00ebm q\u00eb ju mund t\u00eb keni n\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb pune. Kur ju jeni asertiv, ju d\u00ebrgoni sinjale te intervistuesit se ju e respektoni pun\u00ebn e tyre, por gjithashtu prisni q\u00eb ky respekt t\u00eb ju kthehet. N\u00ebse ju silleni n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb pasive, ju d\u00ebrgoni sinjale t\u00eb varshm\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb pasiguris\u00eb tek intervistuesit tuaj. Sjellja agresive \u00ebsht\u00eb totalisht e papranueshme, sepse ajo ju garanton d\u00ebshtimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb u pranuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb kompani.<\/p>\n
Njiheni veten, besoni n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb dini dhe sipas t\u00eb gjitha gjasave intervista do t\u00eb realizohet me sukses.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
P\u00cbRGATITJA PSIKOLOGJIKE T\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebrgatitjet p\u00ebr intervist\u00eb mund t\u00eb ju shkojn\u00eb posht\u00eb n\u00ebse ju nuk keni b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitjen psikologjike t\u00eb duhur. N\u00ebse ju nuk ndiheni t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb me veten dhe me at\u00eb q\u00eb dini, ju mund t\u00eb keni paraqitje t\u00eb dob\u00ebt n\u00eb intervist\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb interesante t\u00eb ceket se njer\u00ebzit me vet\u00ebbesim m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb n\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lexime-per-gra"],"yoast_head":"\n